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I still have a long way to go..

I still have a long way to go.But I’m going and I know that counts for something. It’s been a long road, there’s not one mile that has been easy and I had to learn not to expect it to be.

I have been mindful about picking up my pieces along the way, taking a close look at each one before I decided to take it or leave it. And I have left a lot. The pieces of me worth keeping are far from perfect, some are still cracked,some are still healing,some are still filled with dark and that’s okay.

I search for my own light often,remind myself that I do have some,even though I can’t always see it hiding behind my dark. I still have a long way to go.

I’m still uncovering my own toxic traits, recognizing and unlearning them as I go. I still have a long way to go, but when I look up ahead, I see myself there, standing under my own light, Smiling. So I keep going. I can almost feel that smile on my face 🙂

This is where the magic happens

Follow the Greek method of progressive training:

Meet Milo of Croton – The Great Ancient Greek Olympian.

Progressive overloading

He was the greatest and strongest wrestler of Greece.

He won six consecutive olympic medals! Remember what Usain Bolt said? Win three and become immortal? Imagine six !

How did he become so strong?

He started his training by lifting a new born calf. Hah! So easy peasy. I can lift a calf. You too can lift a calf. What’s the point in lifting a tiny calf? Huh.

Whereas his competitors attempted to lift an adult bull instead. Yo. And they all laughed off the calf lifting. Who does that! Stupid Milo. Huh.

Milo carried the calf daily, all the time. The calf grew slowly and so did Milo’s strength.

And ultimately Milo could lift a bull effortlessly.

But his smart ass competitors were still trying to lift the bull. Sometimes succeeding, maybe, but not excelling like Milo. Smart Milo.

Learn from Milo.

Buy a calf. Lift it daily.

You may keep it down at times, but never for long. Lift it again, and let it grow slowly.

One day you will definitely be able to lift a bull. All the best 🙂

Human to Humanity

“You came empty handed, you will leave empty handed.

What is yours today, belonged to someone else yesterday,

and will belong to someone else the day after tomorrow.

You are mistakenly enjoying the thought that this is yours.”
– Bhagavad Gita

In life we all tend to live for others rather than for ourselves. It’s okay to do things for others unless and until it is from the bottom of your heart.

Just think how many times in a day we get hurt and how many times in a day we hurt others ? Are they proportional ? If so why or why not?

  • Assume, a person asks you to help. We also help them but later in our life we rewind this incident when the same help is not rendered to us. So, now tell me what is the use in helping out that person the other day ? This means we didn’t do things with a thought of kindness. We do business here ! We expect things in return. As a human it may or may not be natural. But when things fall aside we start blaming others. Isn’t that your life ? Were you so dumb and mute that without your knowledge things happened ? Even then, who gave them this advantage ? It’s you ! So blame yourself for everything that happens in life.
  • We mock physical appearances, whomsoever it may concern … But why it has to be ? Don’t they already know that they are black ? Don’t they already know that they are thin / fat ? Don’t they already know that they are dumb/ deaf ? Don’t they already know they are so and so ? We never know what the other person is going through. We never knew ourselves but we started judging others. Is this the philosophy of life ?
  • Reach out to people and help them if you know stuffs little more than them. It’s not to show that you know everything but to make others also know the things you knew.
  • Don’t hesitate to drag yourself forward in life. Fail, get hurt’s okay. everyone of them is facing the same hurdle but in different situation. But don’t even think to do the same things that hurt you badly. You got hurt, you learned, you became strong. It’s fine. Life may squeeze you to the fullest, dump you down. No problem. But when you see others struggling for the same reason of yours or a little different help them out, because not all of them are YOU.
  • Developing Life skills is far more important. Then take you to a step higher than you thought you would go. Life will humble you as you grow. Things that matter now, will never matter after a year or two. Always love others the way you love yourself .Treat people as you treat you. Anger will never give you solution. It just renders you heart breaks and stupid suggestions. Forgive people. See you in the eyes of others.
  • Give Freedom for everyone you meet. Don’t try to trap them in your world. They have their own and they need to take care of it too. Share things, give each other their private space, respect feelings of others and all that you want/ search/ desire in life will be inside you. Smile at people, it will make their day brighter, even yours.
  • Choose words before you speak. You will never know which word can hurt one and which word will not. You’ll never know the situation, mental state and being of any person. Even yours. So try controlling harsh words. Love all , serve all. Build Qualities not Relationship in this world.We all will be out of trace from memories after the next 200 to 400 years (max).
  • So, in this beautiful life develop and qualify yourself as a human being. We can see humans now a days, but not HUMANITY ! But that was not the purpose we were born for.
    Enjoy life , live peacefully and develop serene things in you.
    BE YOU !!!

Happy day!!

Today’s woman

Women need the men in their lives to be feminist allies who want to see the women in their lives succeed every bit as much as they want to enjoy their own success. Men should take time to recognize and acknowledge a woman’s strengths and respect her for all that she brings to their relationship. And when it comes to romantic connection, women want the same things men want; they might just want them in a different order.

Today’s women have changed a lot. they have become stronger both emotionally and financially. They look for certain qualities which allow enough room and breathing space to them. When it comes to men’s abilities, women expect men to be more responsible, accountable and approachable.

Women expect from men:

  • Availability : Availability doesn’t mean being physically available to a women. It is more about being there for her emotionally when she wants him.
  • Responsibility : Men who run away from his responsibilities would always be a turnoff. Those who take up responsibilities and challenges are really the ones that women look for.
  • Dependability : When a man is like a pillar of support, he can be dependable. Many women seek a man who is really dependable in all the circumstances. Even a highly independent woman would have moments where she needs a dependable shoulder to lie down on.
  • Accountability : Blaming others for your failures is one thing that any woman would hate.

“For me, an inspiring woman is simply a woman who can fill someone with the desire or urge to do something worthwhile. Something that creates a better world. It’s a woman who appreciates life with everything it has got to offer.”

What things should never be forgotten in life?

Few months back Netflix released a 3-part documentary about Bill gates. The man is fascinating for many reasons.

•His habits.

•The way he thinks.

His journey to globalizing office software, building one of the world’s biggest companies, becoming its richest man and, now, leading its largest foundation. And influenceing millions to create something that our future generations will remember us for and he is Hardcore environmentalist which is rare in case of billionaires .

He has achieved so much that you can’t even imagine of .But, I think the best reason to find Bill Gates interesting is this:

Throughout the series, an interviewer keeps asking Bill common questions in quick succession.

“What’s your favorite food?”

“What’s your favorite animal?”

You know, the usual. But then, suddenly, the interviewer will throw in an uncommon question.

Maybe, it’s to throw him off guard and get an honest answer. Maybe, they just made it look that way.

Regardless, at one point, the interviewer asks:

“What was the worst day in your life?”

Bill squints. He looks down. He’s thinking, but not really. He knows what he has to say, but he doesn’t want to say it. No one would.

“The day my mother died.”

There it is. A man who achieved literally everything there could possibly be to achieve in this world. And what did he say? The day his mother died.

He didn’t say “the day Steve accused me of stealing from him.”

He didn’t say “the day someone threw a cake in my face and the whole world saw it.”

He didn’t say “the day we had to pay $1.3 billion for anticompetitive behavior.”

He said, “the day my mother died.”

No matter who you are in this world, no matter who you aspire to be or how big your dreams…at the end of the day, life is not about money, or status, or power.

It’s about people.

The people you meet. The people you miss. The people you hate. Most of all, it’s about the people you love.

Some of them will die before you do. Nothing will ever bring them back.

We all have limited time. But when it comes to spending it with those we hold dearest, we might have even less.

The lesson taught or reminded by Mr. Bill Gates well i’m sure no one will forget .

Thanks, Sir Bill Gates for always enlightening Us.

Who is your best friend?

I was asked last week ‘who is your best friend?’ I don’t know. I don’t use language like that any more. It doesn’t fit. I have friends that hold the keys to different doors of my personality. Some open my heart. Some my laughter. Some my mischief. Some my sin. Some my civic urgency. Some my history. Some my rawest confusion and vulnerability.

Some friends,who may not be ‘the closest’ to me,has the most important key for me in a moment of my life.

Some, who may be as close as my own skin,may not have what I need today.

It’s ok if our spouses or partners don’t have every key. How could they? It isn’t failure if they don’t open every single door of who you are.

The million-room-mansion identity cannot overlap perfectly with anyone.

~Jedidiah Jenkins

Learn how to love, feel, forgive and find yourself in the process

May be this is the way it is meant to be. Cross paths with others and learn many things.

Sometimes some people cross our paths and leave this lingering feeling with us. I’m talking about those unique individuals that come in the time you most need them. They come out of nowhere and make an impact on us. They come in the moment when you are depressed , lonely, in pain and lost.

They show you many things that you always doubted. Somehow they bring out that love you have inside. For once in your whole life you feel appreciated. From that moment forward, you regain things that were lost. You regain your courage, your strength and finally you reclaim your soul.

Life begins to feel much easier. There is no more walking on the shattered glass, there is no more fear of what’s to come. Because now your eyes are set on something higher. Something deeper.

Who cares what the world thinks, this is your journey. This is your destiny.

It’s ok to fall in love ♥️

No matter how strong you are

You’re still going to need someone to be yourself with.

Someone to talk to

Someone to share your secrets with

Someone to love, to hold

To comfort you when you feel broken

Don’t ever think you’re meant to be alone

Don’t ever think you’re too strong to be vulnerable with someone

It’s okay to put your guard down sometimes.

It’s ok to fall in love (again)♥️

Quarantine reflections

  • The act of being Enough.
  • God is the Almighty, not us.
  • Out of all the priorities Life is the utmost priority.
  • Health stands prior to Wealth.
  • There is a different world inside Home which is out of the world.
  • No time‘ converted to ‘Family time‘.
  • With the words like quarantine and lockdown, I learned the importance of Freedom.
  • More Patience.
  • I got to know the difference between Needs and Wants.
  • I can literally Save a lot of money.
  • I just need the little to Survive simply.
  • Everyones get a second chance and Earth might be giving us as well to Realise what we have done to nature.
  • Gratitude.
  • We must cherish the little Blessings everyday.♥️

May we never forget Freedom isn’t free. Let’s Live, Enjoy and Embrace.